I promise not to have daily updates on the online dating but, well, I am an official member now. I signed up for a three month membership. It will run out about the time school starts back up for me and I figure if nothing develops before then that I won't have time to continue. So I'm giving myself three months of "fun", if that's what you want to call it.
I've "closed" several more matches today. One had looked pretty promising on his profile - he said he loves dogs and just lost his dog, who was 17 years old. Plus he had a little country place that he likes to hang out it. It sounded good.
Until he got to the questions.
He only wants one night a week to himself...less time - way less time - than I want for myself.
I asked the premarital sex question of him and he wrote in "the last three". The only other option was "I'm completely opposed to it".
When asked if he dominated his relationships he said yes - translation: control freak, which is a total "no way in hell" for me.
Yet, I STILL moved on to the must haves/can't stands stage of the program, but only after I reminded myself of his love of dogs and his country place. lol
As for his must haves/can't stands, they reinforced my belief that he is a control freak and only wants someone whose world will revolve around him and his desires. Anyone who wants to have their own life or wants their needs and desires met will not be compatible for him.
Mark that one CLOSED as of 8:15 a.m. today.
Aside from that, I want to know why someone would include their official arrest mug shots as their photos. Seriously, now that I'm able to view pictures I have to wonder what these people think! And do the guys who include pictures of themselves with other women think that's appealing? I just want to say it looks like they have enough women in their lives already and I'm not willing to become part of their harem.
It's going to be an interesting three months.
Oh, and P.S. I'm a redhead, as of yesterday. ;-)
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